Relationship is primarily composed
of a male and female, if not that some misinformed individuals had decided to
go after people of their same genders.
According to the book of Gen 2, God created the woman and
brought her to the man, “And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man
should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him, 18. And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he
slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof;And the rib, which the LORD
God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man”, 21-22.
It should be clarified that while a
man and a woman form a relationship, the man possesses the responsibility to
look after the welfare of the woman, even though the two of them must work in
tandem to make it work.
When woman seeks love
without returning it
We will like to inform you that the
same way women cry for their partners’ love is the same way men cry for the
love: no one is immune to the feeling of loneliness.
Thus, there should be an
understanding that if the husband could love his wife as Christ loves the
church and gave Himself for it, the wife should also be ready to give all to
the husband without holding anything back.
‘Against her wish is against the
law’ got its positive meaning but we have taken it upon ourselves to let the
general public know that men deserve to be loved as much as women have always
been loved.
Raping a woman, taking advantage of
her, assaulting her, abusing her right, getting violent with her among others –
are totally unacceptable. Whoever forces a woman to do what she does not want
is a cruel being and deserves a place in a correctional facility.
However, women should be conscious
that men are not ‘mister-strong’, all the time, they cry: they long to be
loved, and when their partners turn them down or hurt their emotions – they can
also be affected by it.
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Andrew, Wommack said:
We cannot
deny that emotions exist, and yet some people, because of the negative
experiences they have had with their emotions, go to the extreme and try to be
emotionless. They try to just quit feeling anything. I see this happen many
times with pastors who have gotten close to someone in their church and been
hurt because that person left them or turned on them, which is very common. I
would say that a large percentage of ministers, because of such negative
emotional experiences, simply withdraw and never get close to anyone again.
They don’t develop close friendships because of fear of being hurt. They may
avoid some hurts but they also miss out on one of God’s greatest blessings.[1]
In conclusion, we will like to
appeal to women to give a full emotional, physical, spiritual and financial
supports to their men. Men are prone to quaver when faced with problems that
overwhelm them. Hence, if you want to move faster with the success of your man
(as a lady), you must learn to give this full support to him.
[1]
Andrew, Wommack, HARNESSING YOUR
EMOTIONS, Pg5.
